Homeschool Basics

Where do you start? Beginning general homeschool topics

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So, you want to homeschool, but where do you start?

(Disclaimer: I am by no means an expert.  I can just share tips from my own personal experience)


The answer to this question can vary greatly between people.  But I recommend the very first thing you do is learn the homeschool laws in your state.  Some states have very relaxed laws.  Others are a little more strict.  In any case, knowing the laws for your state is a great way to start building the foundation for your homeschool. The Home School Legal Defense Association (HSLDA) is fantastic.  It is a non-profit organization that was created to defend the constitutional rights of homeschoolers.  Here you can search for your state’s laws.

Ask around.

Another good start is to find someone you know, maybe a family member, friend or someone at your church, who homeschools their children. I learned so much from the 3 people I spoke with about homeschooling.  Each person had a very different perspective on it so it really helped me see homeschooling from different angles.  I just recently found my notes I took when speaking to one veteran homeschooler.  There was such a wealth of information I learned from her, and I am so thankful to have had that opportunity to speak with her.  One big point to remember, when speaking with veteran homeschoolers, is that the best curriculum or co-op that they just couldn’t live without may not work at all for you.  That’s one of the joys and hardships when it comes to homeschooling.  It’s so individualized to your family, and sometimes, to your individual children.


I really enjoyed reading Homeschooling 101: A guide to getting started by Erica from Confessions of a Homeschooler. It’s a very easy read.  She also has a lot of information available on her blog and Youtube channel. There are also many books that have been recommended to me, that I have not had a chance to read yet.  Once I do, I’ll let you know how they are.  I learned a lot from online blogs, podcasts, and Youtube channels.  Here is a small list of some of the websites I have personally used to learn more about homeschooling.

Also, don’t underestimate the power of social media.  Search on Pinterest, Facebook, YouTube, and Instagram.  Homeschooling is really booming right now.


Homeschooling has changed drastically since the 90s.  I hear many people joke about barely ever homeschooling in their home.  They’re always on the go with different activities, trips, experiences, and co-ops.  Check your area for co-ops.  They can be very different from one another.  But basically, they are classes, activities, field trips and/or sports that homeschoolers can do together. The co-op (ours is called a community) we are joining actually gives families the option to sit in on a community day to see what it’s like.


That can be a scary word.  It’s a scary word for me! There is just so much out there.  Individual subjects, box curriculum, online curriculum, religious based, and secular.  Cathy Duffy has been reviewing curriculum for decades. Her reviews are non-biased and can be very helpful when you’re torn between a few different choices.  You can find her reviews here.

You also don’t need to buy everything brand new.  Check to see if there is a local homeschool book swap on Facebook.  Homeschool Classifieds is also another place where you can find used curriculum.  Many of the local homeschool co-ops in my area have annual curriculum/book drives as well.

After you are slightly more familiar with homeschooling, you can learn about the different types of homeschooling.  I won’t go into detail in this post about that (I’ll save it for another day).  But once you figure that out, your choices for curriculum may change a bit.  You’ll use different materials for a “traditional homeschool” than you would for a “classical” or “Charlotte Mason” type of homeschool.

What is your ‘why’?

Why are you homeschooling?  What is it that is driving you?  Write it down, and put it somewhere you will see it often.  If you are having a stressful day, or having (the very normal) fears that you might not be doing everything right, look at your reason.  Remind yourself why you are doing this very hard but extremely rewarding thing for your family.  One of the hardest parts about homeschooling, is making the decision to do it.  Especially if homeschooling was never on your radar.

I hope this very basic, general list can help you figure out how to get started on this wonderful journey!


Why do we homeschool?

I can vividly remember the moment when I first seriously considered homeschooling my children.  I actually only had one child at the time.  Tanner was around a year old.  There were so many emotions filling my brain.  I was scared to go back to work, and leave my baby with someone I didn’t know.  I was looking to the future trying to figure out how we would handle certain situations.  Who would take our kids to their after school activities if I was working 12-13 hour shifts at the hospital and Nick was flying, or deployed?  Who would take care of the kids if they were sick, in those same situations?  As a nurse, I couldn’t just leave patients at the hospital to go get a sick kid from school.  Especially if we were short staffed.  My husband is in the Air Force.  We do not live near family, so asking parents to help just isn’t in the equation, either.  These were the reasons my Nick and I agreed that I would stay home with the kids until they were at least school aged.

While I was enjoying my time at home with Tanner, I started looking online for ideas of things to do with him during the day.  Fun activities that could help him learn his shapes and colors.  That’s when I found Carisa’s blog, 1+1+1=1, and learned all about tot-school.  I spent every nap time reading about tot-school; how to set it up, materials to use, and how long to spend working with your little one. The most important thing was to make sure it was all play based.  There is absolutely no need to do anything structured at such a young age.  I waited until Tanner was 1.5-2 years old to start.  It was during that time, as I was watching my son learn and grasp certain concepts, that I fell deeply in love with teaching him.  Maybe I could actually do this!

Toddler working on fine motor skills

Toddler with color sorting puzzle

That was the beginning reason for me.  I just loved being able to witness his learning, and tailoring activities better to how he learned.  It wasn’t until he got a little older, when we had Wesley, and moved to Florida that my reasons started changing.  I did not like the schools in our area, and I didn’t like how the public school system was changing into something unrecognizable, compared to back when I was in school. I could go into detail here, but if you are reading my blog and are considering homeschooling your own kids, I’m sure you have an idea of what I’m talking about.

A small, but very important reason why we homeschool is because we move a lot.  It would save us a lot of hassle pulling the boys out of school and reenrolling them into a new school every few years.  Who knows what they could miss in between moves, as well.

I also want my boys to grow up with a strong Christian background, and I love the fact that I can incorporate that into their everyday learning.  I can honestly say this is a calling from God.  There were several months where Nick and I were on the fence about homeschooling.  I had the fears that I wouldn’t be able to do it and that I would fail my children.  But I can remember three very distinct moments, where it was like God shook me and said, “You need to do this!”.  Once I realized this is what He wants me to do, my fears started melting away.  Of course, I still have quite a few fears, and worries, but I’m working on them.  I believe it’s absolutely normal to have those feelings.

Please understand that I know there are people out there who would trade anything to be able to stay home with their kids and do this, but can’t for any number of reasons.  I promise I don’t take this blessing lightly.  I thank God and my husband often for this opportunity.


The Boundless Homeschool and the purpose of this blog

When I hear, or read, the word boundless, the first thing that comes to my mind is the phrase, “anything is possible”.  The actual definition is, ‘having no boundaries’.  Endless, limitless, immeasurable…the list goes on.  That is exactly what I hope to teach my boys as I homeschool them; learning is infinite.  As their teacher, and especially as their mother, I want to support endless opportunities for my boys to learn about and engage the world around them.

That is my goal.  But I have an issue.  I’m not one of those established homeschool mom bloggers out there with years of experience and advise to share.  I only have a few years of tot-school and preschool experience.  That is exactly why I am starting this blog.

I can’t tell you how many hours I’ve spent researching and learning about homeschool.  I’ve been researching for years.  As I’ve been reading, blogs especially, it’s really hard to find where people shared their ‘newbie’ experiences.  What they did on their first day, or their feelings and thoughts as they were experiencing it.  Sometimes I was able to dig through a blog long enough to find the beginnings, but at that point much of the advice that was shared was outdated, and not relevant anymore.

So, here I am.  My oldest son is starting his first legal (read: notifying the county our family is homeschooling) year this fall, kindergarten.  My youngest is doing preschool work.  I am going to share with you what I know…but mostly, what I LEARN.  This blog will be for those of you who are just starting out on your homeschool journey, as well.  We can work together, and create a little community.  Homeschooling is hard, if I can help anyone in any little way, I will be thrilled.  I have big plans for this blog.  So stay tuned.